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Rochester
Jack Off
Group
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Thanks for wanting
to know more about us. We are a group of sexually
uninhibited men who like to masturbate with other like-minded men. We
had
our first session in June, 1986. Since we have been around for so long,
we
pretty well know what your questions are, and will try to answer all of
them
here. We got started because of the need for this kind of safe, hot fun
in
Rochester, New York (360 miles--600 km--from New York City). We have over
100 guys in Western and Central New York who are members. Attendance at
our
sessions usually runs between 15 and 20 guys. Our play site is very near
George Eastman House on East Avenue. We are one of only a few such jack-off
groups in the U.S. (Cleveland, Rochester, NYC, Philly, D.C., Atlanta,
L.A,.
and S.F.) Ages of the participants range from 18 through the sixties.
The
group is open to any guy who'd like to give it a try. The only qualification
for membership is that you be male, and enjoy (or think you would enjoy)
group mutual masturbation.
I will try to give
you an outline of what we do, and how we do it (although
I KNOW that you already know the fundamentals). It is important to be
on
time, or you will find yourself locked out of the action. The sex play
takes
place solo, or in groups ranging from two to six or seven. Almost all
of us
like to watch, and be watched, as we get off, and help others to get off.
Men move easily among the groups, and no one is expected to stay with
any
one person for the whole time, although you may if you like. The experience
is unlike the gay baths, in that you don't need to pair up and play till
you
cum. You can touch, and be touched, by lots of men. Some will be hot to
you,
and some will not, but circulate and enjoy. The group is very playful
and
caring.
After the first round,
when everyone is shot (or HAS shot), we take a break
to socialize, snack, have a soft drink, then frequently some action will
start up again. Many of the men will cum two or more times, and we stay
together for about an hour and a half to two hours. Do not feel that you
must cum and run--hang around and enjoy Round Two which is usually slower,
more relaxed, and frequently more fun.
What we do is strictly
safer sex. Relax, smile, laugh, growl, grope, watch,
touch, feel, hold, smell, and most of all stroke. Social conversation
is
very anti-erotic, so save that for the break. Find a light and show off,
or
jerk off at the edge of the group while watching the others. Kissing is
fine, as long as your partner approves. Please keep your hands away from
assholes so that your hands may safely go everywhere else. Sucking, fucking,
rimming and other high risk activities are OUT, as are drugs (poppers
are
OK), and smoking.
There is a four dollar
admission charge for each session which buys supplies
such as paper towels, lube and refreshments. You are invited to attend
your
first session free--just write your name, age (all are welcome), street
and
email address on an envelope, and present it at the door. The envelope
is
your "ticket of admission." The name and address on the envelope
must match
the data on your drivers' license, or other photo ID. Please have both
when
you come it. We INSIST on knowing exactly who the men are who are in our
home. (Would you want strangers masturbating in your home?) This information
is completely confidential, and NO further use is made of it. You will
not
receive email or snail mail from us unless you sign up for email (only).
If
you like the experience, you are invited to join by putting six dollars
in
the envelope after the session. This pays for a 12 month membership,
starting with your first session. If you don't like the experience, just
say
"thanks" and leave.
If the idea sounds
like fun, you'll probably enjoy it a lot, and we hope
become a regular. Expect to be excited (it's more fun than being "nervous")
the first time. We all were. We usually have two to six First Timers at
each
session, so you'll have company. Once you get your clothes off, and a
guy
comes up to you, putting a warm hand on you (who knows where), your initial
anxiety will disappear, and you will know that you're with new friends.
Be
pleasantly assertive when you get into the play room, and find some guy(s)
to play with. We hope to see you soon.
Please consider joining
the JOGroup in order to receive meeting notices by
email for the next 12 months. Joining is easy, just send six bucks (checks
made payable to CASH) to the address below. If you can't receive email,
then
there is no way we can keep you posted, and so, we are unable to accept
your
membership.
HOW TO REACH US:
Email: jogroup@hotmail.com
Snail mail: Don, 22 Vick Park B, Rochester, NY 14607-2122.
FIRST TIMER INFORMATION
Here's how to appear
TOTALLY COOL the first time you join us.
1) Allow time to find
a parking place on the correct side of the street
according to the hard-to-understand signs. You can park on both sides
of
East Avenue for our sessions. Leave your valuables at home, or in the
car.
2) Ring the bell at
the front door. You will be welcomed inside, probably by
me, Don. Introduce yourself, and give me an envelope with your name, age,
street and email address on it. I will check this against your drivers'
license. Paying the annual membership fee (six dollars) is optional the
first time. You must be either a First Timer, or member, to participate.
3) Go upstairs, and
head toward the back of the house through the dining
room. Once IN THE KITCHEN, the first room on the right (blue) is where
you
should strip to your briefs/boxers/thong, then assemble with the guys
in the
kitchen. There is a bathroom off of the blue room for your use. Do not
remove your underwear until you are told that the front door is locked.
This
will happen at the end of the admission period. You can get totally naked,
but if you have some kind of foot infection, such as athlete's foot, or
if
you have cracked or fissured soles, you must wear something on your feet
that will keep them out of the cum on the floor. Socks alone are not enough..
4) The play room is
at the back of the house, also off the kitchen. You will
find different kinds of lubricants there--oil and water based, along with
a
pump bottle of water to re-wet the water based lube. Feel free to cum
on the
green rug. That is what it's for. You can also cum on your partner, but
it
is a good idea to let him know of your intention, so that he can back
out of
the way, if he wants to. You can also shoot your load on yourself. There
are
rolls of paper towels around the room for clean-up. Used paper towels
go
into the bag hanging on the "masturbatorium" door knob.
5) Cold drinks are
on the top shelf of the refrigerator. Ice cubes and tongs
are in the freezer on the left side. Hot drinks (when available) are on
the
stove. Snacks are on the counter. Help yourself when you arrive, or need
a
break from the J.O. action. Please use mugs for all drinks, hot or cold.
Each mug is different, so memorize your mug, and use it throughout the
session.
6 Previous First Timers
tell us that they are amazed at how the make-up of
the group will change from session to session, and that they really had
to
attend three or four times before they had a chance to meet, and play
with,
the wide variety of men who participate.
7) Have fun! If everything
that you've read, above, sounds like something
that you would enjoy, then please email
us for the current schedule, and
directions to our play site. Please put "NYJacks" in the subject
heading of
your email, so that we don't delete it without reading it. THANKS
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